TRESPASSING IN GENERAL
Some people structure and order their lives to such a degree,
should you meet someone you want to “get to know,”
You feel like you’re “trespassing against” their lives to do so.
Who in their right mind is going to do that for long? I’ve only ever done it when my screws needed a good tightening.
Because feeling like a Trespasser is a terrible way to feel;
It ultimately leeches you of your motivation to care in the first place.
It ALWAYS takes too long, but the simple fact is:
When it ends (because how can you welcome trespassers while THEY are admonishing them to Keep Out!?),
Your feelings for “Special Person You Hoped To Know Better” WILL die.
But this particular moment in time, when you cross the line into “Not Caring Anymore,” isn’t for the faint of heart:
It might NEVER cease being a Mixed Blessing.
Then who’s The Trespasser? And who is Free?